What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence, without a standard form and predetermined result. Tantra massage is provided from the heart. In a tantric massage, the entire body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy also gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and develops an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the instructions of) a natural, delighted state of being. The result is frequently a terrific physical, psychological well-being. Generally, the receiver is really relaxed, wonderfully flowing and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch loaded with attention and existence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Many touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is actually like that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Loaded with attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence. Both the provider and the receiver are totally present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Do not take a look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. A very mindful touch from the heart. Get also really knowingly, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Whatever takes place in the moment, in full consciousness, lovingly attuned to each other and the circumstance. Dreaming away or going to sleep is likewise not planned (still, when that's what you require, it's okay).
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. It is not the technique or the wanted series of rubbing that is important, it's about what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages therefore typically take a very unexpected course. Everything fits into a bigger whole. For instance, a tantric massage does not always have to be "great", ending in bliss. A "failed" massage can be the very first action in a great development.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limits
We knew it for a long time, of course, but considering that the #MeToo revelations, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits ahead of time
It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, rubbish. With clothing on is likewise totally okay (however hard to work with oil then). Personally, we have actually given/received numerous tantric massages only on the head.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let circulation freely
Triggering and freeing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erogenous zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural thrilled state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and consciousness. In a flash you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), but normally, that is a process in time. Tantra knows different methods to utilize on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is among them. Tantra has no purpose other than self-realization: bring back the natural (overjoyed) state of being.
Generally leading to a fantastic physical, mental well-being
Tantra assists you to become more unwinded, more vibrant, more energetic, more loving and so much more. In fact, you "find out" to enjoy yourself, your body, your (sexual) energy and life itself. This is likewise the case with a tantra massage. Because this is exactly what takes place frequently: the recipient is enjoying it! Delighting in is totally permitted! A tantra massage is normally good, sometimes scrumptious. We, for that reason, invite you to fully take pleasure in getting ánd providing a tantric massage. Feel, use your senses. Hear, odor, taste, feel and show that you like it. Let your body speak!
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are numerous kinds of massage. Naturally, all massages have certain practices and strategies in typical. Yet there is a big difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (focused on enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (targeted at healing).
Not Therapy
Relaxation is an important part of tantric massage, however of an entirely different order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are truly very energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are extremely worn out), you are very alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT an erotic massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual complete satisfaction, we would call it different. Tantra massage is certainly not a treatment! It's a sort of style these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, but therapy is a profession apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery impacts, however that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For an in-depth explanation, see the post on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stick out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you begin
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Explain contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage suggestions-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your London Tantric Massage very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (pleasure noises?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Demand free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly worried about what they themselves find pleasant, fun, preferable. A tantra massage is not a work job, so as a giver you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "requirements", remain away from your own concerns and above all ... do not try to force anything. Absolutely nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Again, don't attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when somebody goes to sleep. You might not be waiting on a psychological cry, but a tantric massage has no goal. No desired outcome. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage suggestions-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an effect for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage pointers (insights/rules).
* Don't work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a pleased ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear boundaries ahead of time. Our masseuses are primarily extremely open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, naturally. Nevertheless, know that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Trigger sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being aroused is regular and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are essential! A lot can turn up.
* Look out to renewed freezing minutes. Prevent limits from being crossed once again.
* Step by action becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. Beware: no sex! Practice makes ideal. Delighting in the restored balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Give feedback (e.g. satisfaction sounds) and offer integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we mean don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of incredibly flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as recovery, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn exactly what it is like to love yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. Which provides a wonderfully liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
Is enjoying.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a great deal of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love improvement, you may end up being not just cheerful however even euphoric. An overjoyed state of being is possible. The more you surrender, the much better you will feel.
In other words, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined result.
* With regard to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection in between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, thrilled state of being of the recipient.
* Generally leading to a terrific physical, mental well-being (of both).